Absolutely! The system matches Hosts with Performers based on shared preferences, so you’re bound to come across some that you love, but at the end of the day the choice is up to you. You’re never obligated to say yes at any time, even when you match with someone. If you’re not digging the match, or you won’t be free on the proposed dates, you need a rest, you have family visiting, you want to go out that night… whatever the reason, it’s totally cool to say no. The best way to create an amazing show for the audience is to have a willing Performer and a willing Host.